It's funny how you believe me when I say I'm OK.
I don't know about everyone else but I only accept that because it's convenient. People know when someone's not OK. It's easy to tell. So easy, in fact, that you can see it from just text messaging. We're not idiots. We know you're not OK; but is it ingrained in our system that if we know it, we must do something about it? Hell, no; and I wouldn't have it any other way. When you're having your menstrual pains (and we know it hurts like a bitch) and you're having PMS, you're sometimes (very often) also a bitch to comfort. Do we want to go through the trouble? Let me put it this way...
No.
As a matter of fact, I try my best to comfort people I know are worth it. Really. It may not be apparent at times but I do. I don't expect people to thank me for that. I don't expect even an ounce of gratitude. It's cool. We know what you're going through. It hurts. WE KNOW! You don't have to experience menstruation to know how much it hurts. By some scale of comparison, we can tell the kind of pain you're going through. We don't have to go through it ourselves to understand that. But when all you can do is bitch and moan when we're trying to comfort you, all the while throwing snide remarks right back in our faces... Seriously, what's the point? If it makes you feel better to be a bitch, by all means, tell that to me and I'll gladly play the role of bitchee; but if I'm not in the mood for that and you're clearly not trying for yourself either, all I can say is, "Good luck with that." This really applies to all other conditions; depression, broken leg, third degree burns, and last but definitely not least, stupidity.
Take another example (also noted by Haris.), people who try to be deep. Come on, what're you trying to prove? That you can string together a sentence that has some 'hidden meaning' in it? That you have the ability to think about life and come up with meaningful (retarded bullshit) metaphors? Take this for instance;
The purpose of life is a life of purpose.
Honestly speaking, this isn't my first choice but whatever works, you know? Now, lets dig deep. We see that you have a point... And we see that you can form a sentence... We see you know how to spell and read and we see that you've thought a little about life... And now, we see that you have no elaboration. OK, so you can string a sentence together; but to be 'deep' by virtue of omission is just pure lame. By making something so general that it could encompass just about every other shit here on Earth; just what are you trying to prove? We don't need you to tell us how to live. We don't need you to drop your philosophies on us; which frankly, does us no good at all. The purpose of life is a life of purpose? Seriously? You're kidding me, right? Death is a purpose. Life is also a purpose. Good and bad are also 'purposes'. If you're gonna say something as general as that, why the hell do you even bother saying it? Does it make you feel good to pretend you know something about life when clearly, you haven't even mastered the cognitive reactions in your brain?! Is that as far as you thought it out? Because THAT! is PURE! UNADELTERATED! STUPIDITY! If you want to make a point, at least make a point that's worth listening to. Make a POINT! Not some childish attempt at thought process. If you want to say something just for the sake of saying it, and something so stupid to boot, then i suggest you bloody don't. It just goes to show how shallow you are, always skimming the surface, never really thinking about what you say. So much for being deep, huh, you shallow cunt?
Last but not least, people who generalize. What's that word again? Stereotype; that's it. The last call goes out for stereotyping.
After living for 20 years and six days, I just want to say, "I personally believe and suspect that guys have brains the size of peanuts." As sexist as it sounds, I personally do believe so. Story here.
OK, honestly, I don't blame her for saying it... It seems to me like most of her friends are really just a bunch of idiots. If you read the comments, you'd understand what I mean. They came up with crap for argument... Mostly irrelevant and the rest? Plain idiocy. But that's still stereotyping no matter how you look at it. I believe in gender equality. You can say anything you want but I believe women have a huge role in today's society. I believe women are smart. I believe they can do things. But when they say shit like this, it really taints the image. Notice how the statement encapsulates all guys. She doesn't say anything like, 'in general' or 'most'. She goes all out and says what? All guys; that's it. To me, that's really shallow. That's like... for lack of a better metaphor, putting yourself in a guy's shoe. Because I really do believe that guys are shallow, IN GENERAL. Also, in the comments, she conveniently added that she was saying it in general. That's also... quite shallow. If you don't want to stand up for the original statement, don't make it. 'Nuff said. Also, the logic is flawed and so is the reality. Peanut-sized brain? Have you ever seen a peanut? It's obvious she meant that quite literally and that she was exaggerating (or not), but to cut to the point, that's quite a stupid statement to make regarding all male humans.
Further-fucking-more, what's up with that last bit?
As sexist as it sounds, I personally do believe so.
Why do you care if you sound sexist when you are? That's like saying, I know I'm a purple dinosaur because I'm purple and I'm a freakin DINOSAUR, YO! If you don't want the label, don't make the statement. If you've made the statement, don't justify yourself with such intense stupidity. Accept that you're sexist. Accept that you've insulted all men. Don't say, "As sexist as it sounds, I personally do believe so," because WE KNOW YOU SOUND SEXIST AND WE KNOW YOU 'PERSONALLY DO BELIEVE SO'! BECAUSE YOU DO SOUND SEXIST AND YOU SAID YOU 'PERSONALLY BELIEVE'! WE'RE NOT FUCKING IDIOTS (in general)! WE CAN READ! OTHERWISE, WE WOULDN'T BE USING A WEB BROWSER OF EVEN A COMPUTER FOR THAT MATTER!
Ah, fuck that. Signing off.
